Putting your sex lives in order, one question at a time
Here we go with another set of sexy answers to sensual questions submitted by you, the readers:
I'm in a committed relationship and we have lots of (really good) sex. But my boyfriend looks at porn almost every day, maybe more frequently than that. I'm getting sort of concerned about it, and I'm wondering if I should confront him about it. How much porn is too much?
There's no such thing as too much porn. Well, there is, but it's a whole lot.
To qualify as too much, he'd have to be totally desensitized to real life (and it sounds like he still enjoys physical encounters with real people, like you) or it'd have to be interfering with his life (like he skips class because he has no desire to do anything but watch Ginger blow T-bone.)
Porn can be an ally. But if it makes you uncomfortable, you have to make that clear to him. After that, just let it go. You can't control something like porn, especially when its becoming more and more socially acceptable, but you can voice your opinion and try and prove to him that you're as much a porn star as any of them.
Let him spend his extra time how he wants, but don't be afraid to step up your game in accordance to what he's watching!
I'm bisexual and have been dating this awesome girl for a few months. We do lots of things together, if you get me, and it's really great. But I'd like to explore a couple other things. Basically, I am dying to know if scissoring works.
Yes, if you're willing to work out the logistics and you are flexible. Scissoring is a great opportunity to use a double-sided dildo, if penetration is your thing.
About the logistics, you have to "scissor" together at the right angle for clitoral stimulation, unless you want to cheat and use your hands or an outside device. Manual stimulation requires a slightly more complicated position, but a vibrator, or double-sided dildo as previously mentioned, can be beneficial. But for the purely crotch-to-crotch style, friction is important, and it's a different hip motion than the thrusting you would do with a strap-on. There's also a possibility, though I am still waiting for the papers to be published on this research, that the hip motion alone releases a certain amount of endorphines.
I'm in a committed relationship and we have lots of (really good) sex. But my boyfriend looks at porn almost every day, maybe more frequently than that. I'm getting sort of concerned about it, and I'm wondering if I should confront him about it. How much porn is too much?
There's no such thing as too much porn. Well, there is, but it's a whole lot.
To qualify as too much, he'd have to be totally desensitized to real life (and it sounds like he still enjoys physical encounters with real people, like you) or it'd have to be interfering with his life (like he skips class because he has no desire to do anything but watch Ginger blow T-bone.)
Porn can be an ally. But if it makes you uncomfortable, you have to make that clear to him. After that, just let it go. You can't control something like porn, especially when its becoming more and more socially acceptable, but you can voice your opinion and try and prove to him that you're as much a porn star as any of them.
Let him spend his extra time how he wants, but don't be afraid to step up your game in accordance to what he's watching!
I'm bisexual and have been dating this awesome girl for a few months. We do lots of things together, if you get me, and it's really great. But I'd like to explore a couple other things. Basically, I am dying to know if scissoring works.
Yes, if you're willing to work out the logistics and you are flexible. Scissoring is a great opportunity to use a double-sided dildo, if penetration is your thing.
About the logistics, you have to "scissor" together at the right angle for clitoral stimulation, unless you want to cheat and use your hands or an outside device. Manual stimulation requires a slightly more complicated position, but a vibrator, or double-sided dildo as previously mentioned, can be beneficial. But for the purely crotch-to-crotch style, friction is important, and it's a different hip motion than the thrusting you would do with a strap-on. There's also a possibility, though I am still waiting for the papers to be published on this research, that the hip motion alone releases a certain amount of endorphines.
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