Spring Break
Control your urges, men: It will pay off in the bedroom
Issue date: 9/25/08
The start of the year is over, you went to the gym a few times and you thought you were going to be healthy. But your motivation is starting to fade, and the last time you hit the weight room was last week.
You do not really feel like working out, but you do need to maintain your body for those you have your eyes on. The good news is that what their eyes see does not make too much of a difference. The bad news is that you will still need to exercise, for what they feel in the bedroom. Here are a few exercises you can do to keep your partner excited.
Ejaculate control is key to providing satisfaction to a (wo)man. Control does not mean it takes a long time to cum; It means that you control it. Control gives you options, and options make you a better provider. No one wants to have a quickie with you if it will take 40 minutes.
Number One is peeing. Guys do this quickly. In, Out, Boom. Just like sex, for most. It does not have to be this way. Stopping and starting while taking a piss is a simple and effective way to build ejaculate control.
You do not even have to do this while peeing! Bored in class? Simply tighten where you would if you had to stop (this is called the PC muscle), hold for a bit while inhaling, then release. The times are up to you. I hold four, release two.
A long time ago in China, the emperor had a sexual advisor. One of the tests the advisor had to pass is the "drink a cup of water" test.
"But PierceD, I can drink a cup of water!"
Yeah, but can you drink it with your dick? That's right; These guys had such strong PC muscles that they could draw in water through their penises by tightening and releasing. Thirsty?
Number Two concerns while you actually perform the nasty. You know when you are thrusting, then tension mounts and your PC tightens? As a reflex? In this exercise, see how long you can go before you give in to your reflex. Try to keep from tightening the PC muscle, even if you are dying to release the tension.
You do not really feel like working out, but you do need to maintain your body for those you have your eyes on. The good news is that what their eyes see does not make too much of a difference. The bad news is that you will still need to exercise, for what they feel in the bedroom. Here are a few exercises you can do to keep your partner excited.
Ejaculate control is key to providing satisfaction to a (wo)man. Control does not mean it takes a long time to cum; It means that you control it. Control gives you options, and options make you a better provider. No one wants to have a quickie with you if it will take 40 minutes.
Number One is peeing. Guys do this quickly. In, Out, Boom. Just like sex, for most. It does not have to be this way. Stopping and starting while taking a piss is a simple and effective way to build ejaculate control.
You do not even have to do this while peeing! Bored in class? Simply tighten where you would if you had to stop (this is called the PC muscle), hold for a bit while inhaling, then release. The times are up to you. I hold four, release two.
A long time ago in China, the emperor had a sexual advisor. One of the tests the advisor had to pass is the "drink a cup of water" test.
"But PierceD, I can drink a cup of water!"
Yeah, but can you drink it with your dick? That's right; These guys had such strong PC muscles that they could draw in water through their penises by tightening and releasing. Thirsty?
Number Two concerns while you actually perform the nasty. You know when you are thrusting, then tension mounts and your PC tightens? As a reflex? In this exercise, see how long you can go before you give in to your reflex. Try to keep from tightening the PC muscle, even if you are dying to release the tension.
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